The Monsters in Your Life

I’m not going to lie to you – you will have monsters in your life. They’re going to seem big, they’re going to seem scary, without ethics or a conscience; some of them seem pure diabolical. And there’s no absolute shield against them. You’re going to need to deal with your own monsters. Some monsters choose to insult you; only because […]

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So My Work Laptop Got Stolen

It was the most horrible feeling. When it sunk in my head, I was just screaming inside. 😱 It really wasn’t the laptop itself – it was the invaluable data and work inside it. I had spent endless painful hours on a number of projects and it killed me knowing that I lost it all. Especially for one particular […]

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Broke up with a friend; couldn’t be happier!

Hello, world! How have you been lately? So just a couple of weeks ago, I actually broke a friendship… If you asked me some years ago about how I felt about this – I’d probably be all, “Omg, this is horrible! We need to make up!” But right now? I honestly never felt BETTER!!! 😌😌😌 You […]

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What you must do with toxic wankers in your life

Like it or not – your life inevitably has at least ONE toxic wanker. In fact, if you only have one – you’re leading a great life! 😄 I call them ‘wankers’ because I think people who even bother being so toxic to another person, is often lonely and/or satisfied at night when they go to sleep. So they often have […]

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3 Reasons Why We Don’t Bother Saying Anything…

Some people would call it an Asian thing when we don’t say a word when we don’t agree with something. Well, I know there are a few reasons why I just smile and don’t say anything… …no matter how much I’m screaming in disagreement inside. #1 I’m Just Being Polite Maybe Asians tend to appear more polite because […]

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From One Bereaved Daughter to Another

Just some time back I was talking to a friend who had lost her father. It was both easy & difficult for me. Easy because I knew somewhat what she was going through, I lost my own Daddy when I was a little one. Difficult because it tore me apart every time; while I was […]

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