Tag: life
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Want to understand yourself better? Ask yourself this question.
I wasn’t expecting to be asked that question. I was asked to pick between 1-21 to choose a random question to be asked, and I chose 17. (Because I was born on the 17th 😉) “Who is the one person, dead or alive, that you’d like to talk to and what question would you ask…
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5 things when pregnant
I’m really not going to lie – being pregnant hasn’t been easy-peasy for me. Sure, I love my baby. Sure, I’m so happy that God blessed me with this little miracle. But I’m literally tempted to throttle the next lady that tells me, “I totally enjoyed my pregnancy! Didn’t feel anything… only my tummy got…
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The Monsters in Your Life
I’m not going to lie to you – you will have monsters in your life. They’re going to seem big, they’re going to seem scary, without ethics or a conscience; some of them seem pure diabolical. And there’s no absolute shield against them. You’re going to need to deal with your own monsters. Some monsters choose to insult you; only because…
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So My Work Laptop Got Stolen
It was the most horrible feeling. When it sunk in my head, I was just screaming inside. 😱 It really wasn’t the laptop itself – it was the invaluable data and work inside it. I had spent endless painful hours on a number of projects and it killed me knowing that I lost it all. Especially for one particular…
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Broke up with a friend; couldn’t be happier!
Hello, world! How have you been lately? So just a couple of weeks ago, I actually broke a friendship… If you asked me some years ago about how I felt about this – I’d probably be all, “Omg, this is horrible! We need to make up!” But right now? I honestly never felt BETTER!!! 😌😌😌 You…
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What you must do with toxic wankers in your life
Like it or not – your life inevitably has at least ONE toxic wanker. In fact, if you only have one – you’re leading a great life! 😄 I call them ‘wankers’ because I think people who even bother being so toxic to another person, is often lonely and/or satisfied at night when they go to sleep. So they often have…
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From One Bereaved Daughter to Another
Just some time back I was talking to a friend who had lost her father. It was both easy & difficult for me. Easy because I knew somewhat what she was going through, I lost my own Daddy when I was a little one. Difficult because it tore me apart every time; while I was…
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Why Attached Friends Make The BEST Or WORST Friends
Photo Credit: https://twobirdsonestonewedding.wordpress.com We all have that friend who was once upon a time super close to you when he/she was single or just flinging around – then as time went by, decided to be in a serious relationship. And then they start to drift away… Now, because you’re all-so-mature… You realise that time, love…
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3 Things You Need To Know About “Love”
Through all my years, people would often say I’m an idealist – I tend to view the world using fairy tale filters, especially when it comes to love. However I’ll be fully honest with you people and say that it is purely a defence mechanism. The fact is… 1. Your Disney’s Fairy Tale “Happily Ever After” Does NOT Exist I…
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7 Things To Know When You Love A Broken Person
When I say love; it doesn’t limit the whole thing to merely something romantic. It can be loving a friend, a relative… And when I say broken person; it’s a whole new level of broken. Each of us are broken in our own ways and need to be fixed somehow; but some of us are just so broken that…
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6 Things About Commitment-Phobics
Do you know anyone that freaks out at the idea of being fully committed to something/someone?
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Homosexuality
One day while walking home from work looking like an utter corpse… I realised there were a lot of other people who looked like corpses too. Those who await for some great zombie apocalypse… LOOK NO FURTHER!!! IT’S ALREADY HERE!!!
Gera Shen 